I know I would have benefited greatly from having a break up and divorce coach by my side during my very tumultuous divorce several years ago. Although my solicitor was extremely helpful, I often found myself discussing matters outside of her remit and this not only amounted to much heftier legal fees, but also didn't help me to move forward. Though my family and loyal friends provided unwavering support during these turbulent times, without a doubt, I would have been back in charge of my life much sooner had I received the guidance and support of an unbiased, empathetic coach with a sound understanding of breakup & divorce, specifically in the high conflict arena.
Looking back, I found myself in a series of toxic relationships. I felt very hurt and helpless at times, as I didn't understand why I kept finding myself in the same relationship patterns. Eventually I found it impossible to manage and rationalise these difficult and complicated feelings on my own. My physical and emotional wellbeing was compromised. I tried several paths to help myself and during that soul searching, some answers began to take form. I found guidance and support from various sources; these mentors helped me realise I was the one who needed to take back control and make positive changes.
I knew that in order to be a stronger person and at peace with myself, I had to understand why I allowed certain kinds of people into my life. After years of reflection and learning more about myself, I realised that I could be of help to others in similar situations. I am now an accredited breakup and divorce coach focusing on helping people navigate high conflict & toxic relationships, breakups and divorce. My area of expertise is helping people to identify and manage highly narcissistic dynamics.